There’s plenty of content out there on how you need to find your “why.” But today, Cole is taking a different approach to it while providing some examples from his life. This will show you the importance of putting yourself in a position where you are forced to grow. Cole describes some of the issues …
Today we’re talking about an unhealthy addiction. You probably don’t even think that this is an addiction, but it’s one that plagues a lot of healthy, alpha men. Cole first sets the tone by telling a story about The Beggars Bowl, demonstrating the human addiction to validation. Seeking validation is like a drug, and it’s …
Cole is explaining the final parts of the School of Man ethos in the third episode of this three-part series. He reads us the fourth and fifth paragraphs to set up the episode, which he has completely memorized because they come from the heart. After listening to this episode, you’ll have a clearer idea of …
Let’s get into the second of three episodes about the School of Man ethos. This time, Cole is going to be presenting some big questions, but they’re only useful if you actually answer them. The bigger the question, the bigger the answer, the bigger the result. Breaking down the next paragraphs of the ethos, we’ll …
The ethos at the School of Man is like our battle cry. When the “founding fathers” of SoM were putting it together, they spent a lot of time thinking about who is going to read and live this ethos. To some, the ethos is a prayer, and to others, it’s a lifestyle. Today is the …
A conversation that Cole often has with the men he coaches is about their relationships with their wives. He gets asked about how his own wife, Ashley, bought into the new version of himself. That’s what we’re getting into today, focusing heavily on the sexlessness that existed in Cole’s marriage for years. Cole takes us …
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This week, Cole is alongside Zack Cox, Brian Barnett, and Scott Huff. They’re here to talk about their experience with the Crucible Challenge in School of Man, along with how the lessons from it can be applied anywhere in life. The guys reveal their biggest takeaways from Crucible, along with some reasons why they knew …
There are two sides to pressure: the healthy side and the unhealthy side. In this episode, Cole will be explaining what that means and why pressure is integral for building courage as a man. So many men avoid pressure in their lives, and this prevents them from ever doing any meaningful growth. They have lost …
Very few embrace it, but we are all perfectly flawed. It’s important to own the decisions you have made in life, so Cole will be taking us through some of his worst moments in this episode. Going through these situations has made Cole a better man, just like how your flaws have done the same …
We’re joined today by Clint Spear for a conversation about how you would treat today if it was your last day. Clint will also explain what SoM means to him. A lot of men are just existing, not living. This was the case for Clint before he joined SoM. He was okay with where he …